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Marital Rape in India - Gandhari Society

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GANDHARI SOCIETY – MARITAL RAPE While we turn pages of our world known epics like Ramayana, we would read about a time when Lord Ram was able to raise Lord Shiva’s bow ‘ गांडीव ’ and broke it. This was required as per the want of the challenge. This made, most ardent follower of Lord Shiva, Lord Parashuram very angry. Lord Ram’s younger brother, Prince Lakshman, then requested Lord Parashuram to ignore what has happened and believe that his eyes are closed and hence nothing has happened. Lakshman said, “ मूंदे आँख कत्हू कछु नाहि ”. Another world known epic, Mahabharata, depicts the mother or Kaurava’s, Gandhari, who pledged to remain blind folded to show solidarity with her blind Husband, Lord Dhritrashtra. The symbolic of being blind-folded was also to depict that knowingly, she closed her eyes to all wrong that her pedigree was doing. Both these Mythological epics which also derive and depict a lot about our society, tell us one thing that we as Human beings choose to ...

Positively SIF

SAVE INDIAN FAMILY IS POSITIVE, NOT NEGATIVE. The basic purpose of SIF is that our Brothers should be happy. These are some of the advices we commonly offer: Yes, we advise people not to marry 498A abusing girls and their families. We also advise that you must not take back a 498A abusing wife. We advise you not to pay money or settle false cases and support our members to fight cases on merit. We suggest that you should pay what the court orders, rather than paying to settle the case. We do not advise you to file for divorce. Every case is different; hence every case will have its own aims. We suggest a cautious approach and the decision to take a risk is in your hands. Do we disqualify anyone from SIF movement if they do eventually burn their hands and take a risk?   Answer is NO.   However, we do share our utter disappointment with those who have paid money in their first marriage, marry another 498A abusing woman and then come seeking our help. W...

News That Mattered - Effort of 30+ National Commandos Group

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FOR THOSE WHO ASK "NO NEWS ABOUT MEN?" It was starting of 2013 and I had been using a smartphone application for talking to my friends. Then I thought, if I can add my friends, they WHY NOT MY NEW FAMILY? Thus, started the new smartphone group, namely, "Law Misuse Commandos". A channel, a medium, that allowed over 30+ (now 41) Nationwide commandos from various Men's Rights Organizations, combination of new and old members, to come on a single Platform. Though we started discussing activism and activities, but graudally, all group members got into the habit of selecting News Articles which mattered to us (For us / Unhappy Feminists OR Happy Feminists / Sad us). But whatever it was, the activity continued. With this blog, I am hereby updating those clicks which mattered, which either acted as the spark or the iginition, acted as the fire, as the force and led to various serious discussions, knowledge/experience sharing between this Nation...

1, 2 ka 4 in CrPC 125

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HOW CAN 1+2+5=100% In continuation to our endevor to help victims of law misuse the help that no one offers, we did another session of Commando Training Session. May 2013, on Saturday, we got 3 experts who talked about the Criminal Proceedings involved with a Family Court, YES, the experts talked about CrPC 125. What is CrPC 125? 125. Order for maintenance of wives, children and parents. (1) If any person leaving sufficient means neglects or refuses to maintain- (a) his wife, unable to maintain herself, or (b) his legitimate or illegitimate minor child, whether married or not, unable to maintain itself, or (c) his legitimate or illegitimate child (not being a married daughter) who has attained majority, where such child is, by reason of any physical or mental abnormality or injury unable to maintain itself, or (d) his father or mother, unable to maintain himself or herself, A Magistrate of’ the first class may, upon proof of such neglect or refusal, order such pe...