Feminist Allegations on MRAs w.r.t. #AtulSubhash

It's been a while since I penned down a blog. Sorry for going missing.

Though, the current times are way too critical to not write about it.

All of us have witnessed the tragic suicide or the society sponsored murder of #AtulSubhash.

While many Tweets, Videos, Podcasts, News Reports, TV debates have been triggered with this, a huge feminist undercurrent is developing where they are witnessed conveniently blaming either #AtulSubhash himself or the Men's Rights Activists.

Have seen some ironic videos from feminists saying "these Men's Rights Activists having nothing on Atul Subhash case and are just using it"

USING IT?? Really??

If that's the case, that should mean that Feminists USED "Nirbhaya", USED "Shah Bano", USED many females??

Raising the issue, pleading for your survival = USED (as per Feminist dictionary)

One #AtulSubhash case made it to viral media while lakhs and lakhs of #AtulSubhash got a silent, unnoticed, ignored exit from their lives. Thank You, Feminism!!

Coming to the critical ALLEGATION that feminist have put in on majority of MRA NGOs.

Many of MRA activists are also thinking of limited NGO pushed activism around #AtulSubhash.

Firstly, it is critical to acknowledge that while the names of NGOs are not highlighted much, the activism is done by EACH & EVERY MRA with same serious intent of making our voices heard, making the voice that #AtulSubhash left us with, growing strong and stronger to save other men.

THESE IS HOW MRAs ARE DIFFERENT FROM FEMINISTS:

1. For MRAs, names of organizations are secondary, life and survival of every male is PRIMARY.

2. Unlike Feminists, any male life lost for MRAs is a concern and not an TRP discussion.

3. Most importantly, MRA organizations are also worried that while raising our voices are critical, the same should not become an unintended expectation for others.

Now, Feminists can stop reading the blog, while MRAs, Men, Equality supporters may continue to read.

My few cents for Men feeling similar pain:

A fellow MRA raised a concern:

"I sincerely fear that now this will become trend. We have to do something... Men may take this action as the solution."

I hope that our activists may now understand why, as an NGO, we were not very active on Atul's feminism sponsored murder though individually we all were active.

It is critical for everyone to understand that:

1. Suicide doesnt end anything. Infact, it makes it more difficult for your loved ones (hope everyone by now knows that now Atul's father has a case of Maintenance for Grand Son, under HAMA).

2. As a fighter, you can fight well and help yourself and family to come out of it. The conviction rate in Matrimonial cases is very low and that too mostly in cases where there are more severe sections.

3. IPC 498A conviction rate, with appeals is less than 2-3%. So, fighting them properly are almost a sure shot win possibility.

4. Coming to societal status. ALWAY REMEMBER, THIS SOCIETY WILL NOT START STANDING WITH YOUR LOVED ONES EITHER AFTER YOU!! IS SUICIDE A SOLUTION EVEN FOR THIS?? NO.

5. We are all ALWAYS available to talk. PLEASE TALK. Talk to anyone you want to. Don't isolate yourself. Remember, feminist got all these gender biased laws made for them by publicly talking about them. They highlighted even false pain then why should we not share our true pain? Please share.

6. If your worry is your judge's bias, do remember that judges do get transferred. If not, there are options of transfer of cases!! talk to our volunteers, your brothers here!! Everyone has been or is in the same boat.

REMEMBER, EVERY WIN OF EVERY HUSBAND MAKES ATLEAST 30 LEGAL TERRORISTS MORALE WEAK & HELPS IN STOPPING MANY FROM BECOMING LEGAL TERRORIST.

Kill the success of Legal Terrorists by getting their complete network know that SHE LOST (must be a gold digger).

We are all in a time when things are changing, gold digger is no more an exception!! All of us have survived. Let's stay together, keep walking towards our goal.

Things have changed and will keep changing.

STAY STRONG BROTHERS AND DONT HESITATE TO TALK TO ANY OF US.

WHEN WE LAUGH, OUR OPPOSITE PARTY BURNS!

Keep smiling and they will fall.

PS: I am not judging if any man is right or wrong. I am just saying, fighting is a better option brothers!!